My Mom taught me to value honesty. Throughout the years she has had to share with me some difficult things, but she has remained true to her values. Secrets kept only perpetuate problems. Brothers and sisters who keep secrets, keep their siblings under lock and key. Release yourself and your family by vowing to be honest with each other, and freedom awaits you.
Secrets are poison to a relationship. If you find it is hard to be open and honest with someone, then you can almost be sure it’s not going to work. Watch the person you are with in their other relationships, if they are deceitful with other friends, how can you expect them to be any different with you.